pain is love (haha that's a ja rule** album title)

clap clap clap
from the back back back
smack smack smack
when I act like that
she react right back pullin on
the sheets the pillows the dresser the covers the mattress
the passion makin love
girl you're scratchin me up...
(c) Trey Songz

I'm curious: when sex is intense for you... do you inflict pain? Do you like pain to be inflicted? Do you scratch? Bite? Do you like to be choked (if so, what the hell is your safety word - PLEASE tell me you have one lol)? Do you like your hair pulled? Or are you like one of my fellow LesbiFriends* who refuses to have sex without her hair tied up because she doesn't want her locs to "get fuzzy?" Do you like her to smack your ass?

While on the subject of pain, here's another question I've had for a while: are you a fan of either of these phrases:

• beat it up
• bust it open
• bust it WIDE open

[wait.] on some silly shit I just went to urbandictionarydotcom, just to see what fuckery they would warm my heart with, and here are a couple of gems:

beat it up:

1. to be on the giving end of a sexual encounter (short for "beat up the pussy" or for you fudge packers and freaks out there "beat up the ass").
2. When a guy "beats up" the pussy... or "knocks the bottom outta the pussy"... in other words... knows how to hit it right.

I have now learned a new phrase and I'm making it the PHRASE OF THE DAY [insert gleeful laughter here]. So whenever you hear someone say "knock the bottom out the pussy" within these coming 24 hours, scream like crazy!

[yuuup!]

*5 metaphoric gold stars for you if you guess the right LesbiFriend

** and AGAIN I must ask: did Ja Rule really happen??